Generated by All in One SEO v5.0.1.1, this is an llms.txt file, used by LLMs to index the site. # The Pullen Consulting Group, LLC Transformational learning experiences that ignite positive change from the inside out. ## Sitemaps - [XML Sitemap](https://pullenconsulting.com/sitemap.xml): Contains all public & indexable URLs for this website. ## Posts - [Library](https://pullenconsulting.com/library/) - The true value that thriving families and organizations achieve with intentional effort to create legacies of stewardship, values and balance - [10 Habits That Keep Families Wealthy](https://pullenconsulting.com/2023/11/09/10-habits-that-keep-families-wealthy/) - Courtney Pullen studies wealthy families as president of the Pullen Consulting Group, framed by his 10 Habits of a Healthy Family Culture. “Maintaining wealth and growing up with wealth is challenging,” Pullen, a former counseling psychologist, tells ThinkAdvisor in a recent interview. “Wealth exacerbates pre-existing fault lines.” The primary reason that these families fail, both - [Courtney's Work | An Interview with SIMPLY TAX](https://pullenconsulting.com/2018/02/08/courtneys-work-interview-simply-tax/) - For those of you that may prefer to listen to why I do what I do as opposed to reading it, I thought you might be interested in a podcast interview I did for SIMPLY TAX. In the interview, I was asked about how I came to do what I do, what it is that - [What Is True Stewardship?](https://pullenconsulting.com/2018/04/18/what-is-true-stewardship/) - The idea of stewardship seems to be an integral part of a family being successful in the long term. Surprisingly, most of the families I have worked with or interviewed did not specifically list stewardship as a defined value that they were intentionally living from. Yet most talked about it or the essence of it - [How to Eliminate Entitlement](https://pullenconsulting.com/2018/06/13/how-to-eliminate-entitlement/) - Stewardship in families is a long-term vision, a legacy of both giving back to the larger community and helping the family flourish over many years. It is framed in terms of, “what will be best for my family years from now?” Al Watts, in his book Navigating Integrity, says. “Effective stewardship requires that ability to - [Not Guilt. Gratitude](https://pullenconsulting.com/2018/05/16/not-guilt-gratitude/) - Most of the families I have worked with or interviewed discuss openly their sense of responsibility to be the stewards of the wealth. There is a deep sense that “to whom much is given, much is expected.” In flourishing families, this sense does not come from a sense of guilt or obligation. Instead, it grows - [What is a Rich Life?](https://pullenconsulting.com/2014/10/23/rich-life/) - Welcome to the beginning of a journey to understand what it truly means to live a rich life. According to the dictionary the word rich means: ironic, opulent, fertile, wealth, full or heavy. Our culture has defined it for us as material wealth and I’m not sure we got a vote. I contend that it - [What are the 10 habits of a healthy family culture?](https://pullenconsulting.com/2014/11/06/what-are-the-10-habits-of-a-healthy-family-culture/) - 10 habits of healthy family cultures: 1. Establish shared values - [What are your family values and beliefs?](https://pullenconsulting.com/2014/11/20/what-are-your-family-values-and-beliefs/) - 10 habits of healthy family cultures: 2. Define a family mission and vision. - [Is it ever too early to teach responsibility and restraint?](https://pullenconsulting.com/2014/12/04/is-it-ever-too-early-to-teach-responsibility-and-restraint/) - 10 habits of healthy family cultures: 3. Establish healthy limits or boundaries. - [Do you know what your family members are passionate about?](https://pullenconsulting.com/2014/12/18/do-you-know-what-your-family-members-are-passionate-about/) - In our continuation of 10 habits of a healthy family culture, I would like to introduce the fourth habit. 4. Support family members in leading lives with purpose. One of the greatest fears for many wealth creators is that their success will enable future generations to become dependent and live off the family money without - [Do you practice financial accountability with your children?](https://pullenconsulting.com/2015/01/01/do-you-practice-financial-accountability-with-your-children/) - 10 habits of healthy family cultures: 5. Prepare heirs to manage wealth in ways to foster wellbeing. - [Do you communicate openly and without agenda?](https://pullenconsulting.com/2015/01/15/do-you-communicate-openly-and-without-agenda/) - 10 habits of healthy family cultures: 6. Practice skillful communication. - [Are you confident enough to ask for help?](https://pullenconsulting.com/2015/01/29/are-you-confident-enough-to-ask-for-help/) - 10 habits if healthy family cultures: 7. See the family as a learning system. - [Are you all in agreement around the value in helping others?](https://pullenconsulting.com/2015/02/12/are-you-all-in-agreement-around-the-value-in-helping-others/) - 10 habits of healthy family cultures: 8. See the family as a steward of the wealth. - [How do you define service within your family?](https://pullenconsulting.com/2015/02/26/how-do-you-define-service-within-your-family/) - 10 habits of healthy family cultures: 9. Value giving back. - [What will your family legacy be?](https://pullenconsulting.com/2015/03/12/what-will-your-family-legacy-be/) - 10 habits of healthy family cultures: 10. Have a long-term view of the family. - [The Money Relationship Continuum](https://pullenconsulting.com/2015/03/26/the-money-relationship-continuum/) - Please reflect on the following: • What does it mean to have an empowered relationship with money? • What circumstances create an imbalance? • Where would you like to be on the continuum and what will it take to achieve that goal? - [What does is mean to have an empowered relationship with money?](https://pullenconsulting.com/2015/04/23/what-does-is-mean-to-have-an-empowered-relationship-with-money/) - 1. What does is mean to have an empowered relationship with money?It is knowing who you are and what matters to you, then using money to support your passions It is living life as a responsible adult instead of allowing wealth to keep you a dependent child It is enjoying wealth and appreciating the advantages - [Finding the balance between denial and entitlement](https://pullenconsulting.com/2015/05/07/finding-the-balance-between-denial-and-entitlement/) - 2. Finding the balance between denial and entitlement - [How do families support their members to build healthy and empowered relationships with wealth?](https://pullenconsulting.com/2015/05/21/how-do-families-support-their-members-to-build-healthy-and-empowered-relationships-with-wealth/) - 3. How do families support their members to build healthy and empowered relationships with wealth? They are intentional. They neither use it with destructive carelessness nor pretend is doesn’t exist. They choose to accept both the advantages and the responsibility of wealth and to create a plan for the family money A focus on future - [Identity beyond wealth](https://pullenconsulting.com/2015/06/04/identity-beyond-wealth/) - 4. Identity beyond wealth–it can be so difficult for an individual growing up in a wealthy family to establish a sense of their own identity. The following quote from Steve Jobs is a plea to the individual: - [What are your money scripts?](https://pullenconsulting.com/2016/10/25/what-are-your-money-scripts/) - Money scripts, we all have a few. One of my favorites; “money doesn’t grow on trees”. Think about that from a child’s perspective. - [What are your negative feelings about money?](https://pullenconsulting.com/2016/11/08/negative-feelings-money/) - Are you feeling frustrated about your relationship with money? Most people are in some capacity or another, so you are not alone. I’m going to suggest a very therapeutic exercise about money that takes just 10 minutes! Sit down in a quiet space, clear your mind, take a deep breath and write down all of - [How to remove negative feelings about money](https://pullenconsulting.com/2016/11/22/remove-negative-feelings-about-money/) - What does it mean to have a conscious relationship with money? We are influenced by so many factors from old money scripts that we learned growing up. This is usually what our parents modeled, what our culture tells us and from it, we learn to fear. What would it look like if you had a - [The necessity of struggle](https://pullenconsulting.com/2015/09/11/the-necessity-of-struggle/) - Why allowing our children to struggle teaches them the most important financial and life lessons. - [What would it mean to live a rich and fulfilling life?](https://pullenconsulting.com/2015/10/19/what-would-it-mean-to-live-a-rich-and-fulfilling-life/) - What would it look and feel like? What would be important to you? - [Taking stock](https://pullenconsulting.com/2016/01/08/taking-stock/) - The last post left you with the question... what would it mean to live a rich and fulfilling life? How did the questions settle in or deepen for you? Did the exploration cause you to see a gap between where you are and where you would like to be? Before we explore how to close - [Closing the Gap](https://pullenconsulting.com/2016/03/08/closing-the-gap/) - Consider closing the gap between where you are and where You want to be. What action are you willing to commit to? What is your game plan? - [The importance of Presence](https://pullenconsulting.com/2016/04/05/the-importance-of-presence/) - Creating a healthy family culture starts with the Presence of its individual members. - [The three factors that influence Presence](https://pullenconsulting.com/2016/05/03/the-three-factors-that-influence-presence/) - 2. There are three primary factors that influence our ability to be Present: Cognition, Body and Mood. We will explore these, starting with cognition. - [How are you physically present?](https://pullenconsulting.com/2016/06/14/how-are-you-physically-present/) - In exploring the factors that influence our ability to be Present the next one is Body, which is how we are physically present in a given situation. - [The value of a balanced mood](https://pullenconsulting.com/2016/06/28/the-value-of-a-balanced-mood/) - Mood is the final factor that influences our ability to be Present. It is a deeper mindset that is part of who we are. - [How to regain balance](https://pullenconsulting.com/2016/07/19/how-to-regain-balance/) - The factors that influence our ability to be Present in our lives, Cognition-Body-Mood. I find it useful to think of the three as constituting a wheel. - [“Don’t believe everything you think.” — Allan Lokus](https://pullenconsulting.com/2016/08/31/contrary-perception/) - Better communication: Why is it so difficult to relate to a perception that is contrary to our own? - [Assertions vs. Assessments](https://pullenconsulting.com/2016/09/26/assertions-vs-assessments/) - Are you passing judgement or is it fact? Have you made up a story about you or someone close to you that needs to be revised? - [The gap between stimulus and response](https://pullenconsulting.com/2017/01/13/the-gap-between-stimulus-and-response/) - WE move through life believing we're informed, conscious decisions makers. Most of the time we're unaware of why we decide on one course of action vs another. - [How do you do level two?](https://pullenconsulting.com/2017/01/31/chronic-patterns/) - we can learn to have the most control over it if we acquire adaptive skills. These level 2 responses have lasting consequences.cause - [6 tools to calm your level two responses](https://pullenconsulting.com/2017/04/11/6-tools-calm-level-two-responses/) - Within hours of my last blog I received a number of comments about our responses to stress, specifically level two responses. As promised in this blog we will discuss tools to calm those responses. First, just knowing that it isn’t the content of our lives that causes stress as much as how we respond to - [The Rising Generation](https://pullenconsulting.com/2017/05/02/rising-generation/) - Several years ago, Jay Hughes, a prominent leader in the field of Family Wealth Counseling strongly suggested that instead of referring to the next generation in a family as, “Next Gens” we needed to think of them and relate to them as the “Rising Generation”. He went on to postulate that particularly in a family - [The Rising Generation | Are you checking in with your driving factors?](https://pullenconsulting.com/2017/08/29/rising-generation-checking-driving-factors/) - A useful context for the Rising Generation is to consider that we have three primary drives, a drive for connection, individuation and purpose. The drive for connection is the most fundamental of the three. For example, consider the need of an infant to be securely attached to their parent. Without this attachment, the child - [The Rising Generation | Who are you...truly?](https://pullenconsulting.com/2018/01/16/rising-generation-truly/) - Finding one’s purpose in life is a journey of discovery with many adjustments along the way. This noble voyage begins with the essential question, “who am I?” In other words… “what is and has always been true of me?” Most of us get caught up in the shoulds of life, e.g., “I should be an - [How to Grow the Wealth of a Family](https://pullenconsulting.com/2018/03/28/grow-wealth-family/) - When you think about growing the wealth of a family what comes to mind? Is it their balance sheet or how they treat each other? The difference they make in the world? Their family values, or how they come together as a family? It’s actually all of the above yet something tends to happen in - [Stewardship](https://pullenconsulting.com/2015/08/28/stewardship/) - A necessity for healthy, thriving affluent families. - [The Rising Generation | A work in progress](https://pullenconsulting.com/2018/02/27/rising-generation-work-progress/) - In the last blog, I recommended an exercise for you to come up with an essential self-statement. What was it like to complete the exercise? 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[Facilitation: Purposeful Shifts](https://pullenconsulting.com/updates/facilitation-purposeful-shifts/) - [The 10 Percent](https://pullenconsulting.com/updates/the-10-percent/) - [What to Do if You ‘Care’ More than Your Client Does](https://pullenconsulting.com/updates/what-to-do-if-you-care-more-than-your-client-does/) - [Listening and What to do With What you Hear](https://pullenconsulting.com/updates/listening-and-what-to-do-with-what-you-hear/) - [Listening and What to do with What You Hear](https://pullenconsulting.com/updates/listening-and-what-to-do-with-what-you-hear-3/) ## Portfolio - [Australia](https://pullenconsulting.com/our-destination/australia/) - Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. 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Pellentesque convallis dolor suscipit, ullamcorper mauris vel, maximus ante. Maecenas id rhoncus dolor. Ut eget tortor sem. In feugiat fermentum mollis. Quisque id lacus et velit convallis gravida ut sit amet ipsum. Quisque vitae urna scelerisque, iaculis nisi nec, - [Canada](https://pullenconsulting.com/our-destination/canada/) - Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Suspendisse id mattis augue. Proin eget imperdiet nulla. Pellentesque convallis dolor suscipit, ullamcorper mauris vel, maximus ante. Maecenas id rhoncus dolor. Ut eget tortor sem. In feugiat fermentum mollis. Quisque id lacus et velit convallis gravida ut sit amet ipsum. Quisque vitae urna scelerisque, iaculis nisi nec, - [South Africa](https://pullenconsulting.com/our-destination/south-africa/) - Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Suspendisse id mattis augue. Proin eget imperdiet nulla. Pellentesque convallis dolor suscipit, ullamcorper mauris vel, maximus ante. Maecenas id rhoncus dolor. Ut eget tortor sem. In feugiat fermentum mollis. Quisque id lacus et velit convallis gravida ut sit amet ipsum. Quisque vitae urna scelerisque, iaculis nisi nec, - [USA](https://pullenconsulting.com/our-destination/usa/) - Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Suspendisse id mattis augue. Proin eget imperdiet nulla. Pellentesque convallis dolor suscipit, ullamcorper mauris vel, maximus ante. Maecenas id rhoncus dolor. Ut eget tortor sem. In feugiat fermentum mollis. Quisque id lacus et velit convallis gravida ut sit amet ipsum. Quisque vitae urna scelerisque, iaculis nisi nec, - [Japan](https://pullenconsulting.com/our-destination/japan/) - Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Suspendisse id mattis augue. Proin eget imperdiet nulla. Pellentesque convallis dolor suscipit, ullamcorper mauris vel, maximus ante. Maecenas id rhoncus dolor. Ut eget tortor sem. In feugiat fermentum mollis. Quisque id lacus et velit convallis gravida ut sit amet ipsum. Quisque vitae urna scelerisque, iaculis nisi nec, - [South Pacific](https://pullenconsulting.com/our-destination/south-pacific/) - Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Suspendisse id mattis augue. Proin eget imperdiet nulla. Pellentesque convallis dolor suscipit, ullamcorper mauris vel, maximus ante. Maecenas id rhoncus dolor. Ut eget tortor sem. In feugiat fermentum mollis. Quisque id lacus et velit convallis gravida ut sit amet ipsum. Quisque vitae urna scelerisque, iaculis nisi nec, - [Tibet & Nepal](https://pullenconsulting.com/our-destination/tibet-nepal/) - Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Suspendisse id mattis augue. Proin eget imperdiet nulla. Pellentesque convallis dolor suscipit, ullamcorper mauris vel, maximus ante. Maecenas id rhoncus dolor. Ut eget tortor sem. In feugiat fermentum mollis. Quisque id lacus et velit convallis gravida ut sit amet ipsum. 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[intention](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/intention/) - [focus](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/focus/) - [communication](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/communication/) - [identity](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/identity/) - [sense of self](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/sense-of-self/) - [Steve Jobs](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/steve-jobs/) - [purpose](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/purpose/) - [mission](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/mission/) - [financial responsibility](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/financial-responsibility/) - [financial grace](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/financial-grace/) - [respecting wealth](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/respecting-wealth/) - [financial lessons](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/financial-lessons/) - [financial accountability](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/financial-accountability/) - [avoiding entitlement](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/avoiding-entitlement/) - [correcting entitlement](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/correcting-entitlement/) - [importance of struggle](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/importance-of-struggle/) - [resistance to change](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/resistance-to-change/) - [step into your potential](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/step-into-your-potential/) - [taking action](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/taking-action/) - [setting goals](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/setting-goals/) - [closing the gap](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/closing-the-gap/) - [presence](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/presence/) - [healthy family culture](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/healthy-family-culture/) - [cognition](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/cognition/) - [physical presence](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/physical-presence/) - [truly present](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/truly-present/) - [mood](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/mood/) - [acceptance](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/acceptance/) - [perception](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/perception/) - [polarizing arguments](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/polarizing-arguments/) - [learn to relate](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/learn-to-relate/) - [assertions vs. assessments](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/assertions-vs-assessments/) - [judgement](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/judgement/) - [fact vs fiction](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/fact-vs-fiction/) - [made up a story](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/made-up-a-story/) - [evaluating](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/evaluating/) - [are you where you want to be](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/are-you-where-you-want-to-be/) - [taking stock](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/taking-stock/) - [money scripts](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/money-scripts/) - [relationship with money](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/relationship-with-money/) - [healthy relationship with money](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/healthy-relationship-with-money/) - [negative feelings about money](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/negative-feelings-about-money/) - [money is the root of al evil](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/money-is-the-root-of-al-evil/) - [unblock](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/unblock/) - [intentional wealth](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/intentional-wealth/) - [emotional triggers](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/emotional-triggers/) - [positive self talk](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/positive-self-talk/) - [positive reaction](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/positive-reaction/) - [change old habits](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/change-old-habits/) - [drive](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/drive/) - [rising generation](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/rising-generation/) - [emancipation](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/emancipation/) - [how to grow wealth](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/how-to-grow-wealth/) - [how to grow family wealth](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/how-to-grow-family-wealth/) - [responsibility of stewardship](https://pullenconsulting.com/tag/responsibility-of-stewardship/) ## Update Year Groupings - [2020](https://pullenconsulting.com/update_year/2020/) - [2019](https://pullenconsulting.com/update_year/2019/) - [2018](https://pullenconsulting.com/update_year/2018/) - [2017](https://pullenconsulting.com/update_year/2017/) - [2016](https://pullenconsulting.com/update_year/2016/) - [2015](https://pullenconsulting.com/update_year/2015/) - [2014](https://pullenconsulting.com/update_year/2014/) - [2013](https://pullenconsulting.com/update_year/2013/) - [2012](https://pullenconsulting.com/update_year/2012/) - [2021](https://pullenconsulting.com/update_year/2021/) - [2022](https://pullenconsulting.com/update_year/2022/) ## Portfolio Categories - [Adventure](https://pullenconsulting.com/portfolio_category/adventure/) - [Beaches](https://pullenconsulting.com/portfolio_category/beaches/) - [Gateways](https://pullenconsulting.com/portfolio_category/gateways/) - [Spa](https://pullenconsulting.com/portfolio_category/spa/) - [Wedding](https://pullenconsulting.com/portfolio_category/wedding/)